having to be “mature” at a young age sucks bc you aren’t really “mature-mature” you’re a child playing at a maturity bc you don’t have the foundation to be the bigger person when conflict arrives so what you do is ignore it bc ignoring a problem and being happy about a resolution look the same to your inexperienced eyes. Then you get adults praising you for a development above your peers but you aren’t really developing. You’re stagnant. Your peers will grow up and experience things and make mistakes and grow from them but you will keep yourself in this box, ignoring things ignoring ignoring ignoring until one day you have to face the fact… it wasn’t maturity you had. It was fear. And now you’re an adult too and you make all of your choices based on an emotional risk/costs analysis bc you don’t know any emotion other than fear & you have to start healing from your own childhood by making peace that you weren’t really a mature child. You were just a child who was given too much to carry & didn’t know how to say “no”.
The Computer Room is such a weird concept nowadays but growing up in the 90s/00s we really had a whole ass room dedicated to our computer. Anthropologists 1000 years from now are gonna think we worshiped computers so much we had shrine rooms for them
we renamed it an office to try and pretend but we all know its a computer shrine still
As I said a few posts ago, I do as much or as little as a person wants. Sometimes, that’s a very little visual repair that stabilizes a patient, but keeps them looking well loved, like Grover.
Grover was brought to the hospital in person. He is well loved, and well worn. But his person liked his bald bits, and didn’t want them to change. So the only treatment was small fur transplants for actual holes, and a bit of lining underneath, as well as smile wound stitching. You see, he’d been bald for a long time, and if he tore more in the future, then she could always bring him back for more repairs. So here is Grover, after surgery. You can see the small fur transplants at his neck, tush, and back if you look closely. That’s the transplant fur next to him.
Grover’s person couldn’t stop hugging him when she picked him up! 🙂
@kkelenca@seepunkrun@speff You guys always go out of your way to say such nice things to me. If I don’t often reply, please know I see you, and it means more than I could ever say. ❤ ❤ Thank you so much!! You’re the best!!!!!! <3<3
Here’s a bonus I hope you’ll enjoy!
We all know Spock and Jim share a bathroom, but what if Scotty was Jim’s other neighbor hahaha.
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